How to Stop Being Lied to By Men
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Today, let’s talk about how to stop being lied to by men. I’m going to give you keys that are very simple to stop being lied to.
The first key is to let go of your fantasy. When we have a fantasy about what we want in a relationship, especially when you believe that it’s hard for you to find the right guy, you’ll be looking for something to fulfill it no matter what even if it compromises your values. Even if he lies to you, simply because you want the fantasy to happen, you’re willing to believe him.
When we have an obvious bias, we’re going to be easier to deceived that’s why I say that love is one of the deceptive emotions.
The second key is to look at the acts and not what they say. This is big especially with friends and with people that we believe that we love, sometimes they tell us something and do the other thing. And because we’re so affirming and deceptive and looking for confirmation bias, we’re willing to disregard the acts and listen to what they’re telling us.
The third key is to act like you don’t know anything or else, you’ll raise suspicion. If a guy’s going to lie, he’s going to see how visual you are. the problem is a lot of times we try to act like we are not easily fooled or see ourselves as wise and it raises people’s defenses. If a guy’s going to lie, it’s going to be hard to find out he’s lying if he knows you’re always looking at his phone or asking questions. When he knows that, he’ll be extra careful.
You want him to think that you trust him and you’ll never leave him. Stack up the evidence and let him mess up. This takes too much patience.
Get into the habit of learning how to shut up sometimes and let him do whatever he needs to do and casually react.
Here’s a link to the article version: https://mindfulattraction.org/blog/2019/7/30/how-to-stop-being-lied-to-by-men
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